Four Generations in our family celebrating!
We home schooled our children for all but 2 years of their K-12 experience. It was a season of hard work, but it was also a season of growing together as a family in knowledge, values, closeness, and love. It is an experience that took me by surprise when God convicted my heart that this was the path we were to take. It is also one that I am so thankful we took. Was it easy? Nope. Was it worth it? Most definitely. Many have concerns that home schooled children are not properly socialized. Well, most home schooling parents think this is a ridiculous concern. Let me share a big positive that shows how home schooled kids are in faaxct socialized and why it is a great thing. Our kids are out and about doing the regular business of life. They are at the very least watching, but more likely and more often participating in the actions of life. They are learning from and interacting with people of all ages. This is key.
These “sheltered” kids are involved and get to know people across the spectrum of age, from the youngest to the oldest. When they are on their own, they are comfortable interacting with others. They have ample opportunities to practice skills needed in relationship building with adults and young people that serve them well throughout life. This is a great example of how intentionally intergenerational activities are needed in all aspects of life. Perhaps your house of worship provides these opportunities. Perhaps it does not. But, it is key for all involved to seek out others that are in different age groups at church and our in the rest of life. Why? We come to understand and appreciate each other. What are their priorities? What is important to them? Them may refer to those much younger or much older than we are. Do not limit yourself. You cannot fully appreciate others un less you truly come to know them. You may be surprised by just how much you have in common.
How do we make this happen? This article outlines the benefits for all involved. Stayed tuned to our website for future articles that will provide suggestions for intergenerational activities. Please share your thoughts and experiences. Let’s learn from each other!
Benefits of Intergenerational Activities